Home-Making

September 29, 2010

I spent time this afternoon cleaning my apartment. I had a few hours to myself, and I did some laundry, some thorough vacuuming and dusting, and a few other chores. The result was that, at the end of the day, my living room and bedroom looked better than they have in quite a while. I’ve been busy lately and haven’t really been able to venture past straightening and tidying to really cleaning. But today I got to clean, and it felt good.

Sometimes household chores seem endless. They seem like a hindrance to creativity, because they take so much time. A lot of days, I don’t feel like doing them at all. But some days, like today, I take joy in these tasks because I see the result: my work helps my home become a space of peace and beauty.

I like the term homemaking. Probably because I love home and I love making. Doing the dishes every day, changing the bed sheets, scrubbing the bathtub – all these tasks are part of making a home. That thought encourages me; it helps me remember that time spent cooking and cleaning is not time lost to creativity. In its own way, homemaking is creative work.

This song has been my working song for the past several months. It reminds me that everyone has daily tasks to accomplish – tasks that will have to be performed all over again the next day. We can whine about it, or we can “sing for the beauty that’s to be found.” I’d rather sing.


Hope this song makes you as happy as it makes me …

September 17, 2010

This weekend, Jeremy and I went to a show at the Q Cafe in Ballard. We’d been meaning to see Washington Mile for a while now, but this was the first time we actually got out and did it. I’m so very glad we did.

You know how good music can lift you up and seemingly take you into a different place? This show did that for me.

One song in particular has been in my head for the last few days. Enjoy it!

Purdy Waters by washington mile.

And go see Washington Mile at the High Dive on September 29th. They’re amazing.


Saying No to Perfectionism

September 15, 2010

In yesterday’s post, I wrote that I don’t have time for perfectionism. That thought has been running through my mind throughout the day today. I think it’s something I need to remember more often.

My favorite quote on perfectionism comes from Anne Lamott’s book on writing, Bird by Bird. I love this quote, because I think it’s right on.

I think perfectionism is based on the obsessive belief that if you run carefully enough, hitting each stepping-stone just right, you won’t have to die. The truth is that you will die anyway and that a lot of people who aren’t even looking at their feet are going to do a whole lot better than you, and have a lot more fun while they’re doing it.

Lamott also points out that if you are obsessed with being perfect, you’ll never allow yourself to create the perfectly awful rough draft that is the necessary first step in the process of making something beautiful.

… Just wanted to share that in case there are any other perfectionists out there who need to give themselves a break and allow themselves to enjoy the messy imperfection of the creative process. Please, be creative, get messy, and have fun!

Make a mess!


Back to Blogging

September 14, 2010

Well. It has been a long time since I last blogged. Over the past few months, I’ve been adjusting to working full-time again, and it’s been a challenge to find my balance and to make time and space for creativity. But I think I’m getting there.

I actually think that having a regular routine can be great for creativity. And it’s often while I’m doing other daily tasks that I have the ideas that later become creative projects. When I’m busy, the problem is not lack of inspiration; it’s the difficulty of carving out time to actually sit down and write, or sit down and draw, or to try a new recipe in the kitchen. But slowly I’m getting there. This weekend I completed a pen and ink drawing. Tonight I made basil coconut curry for the first time. And at this moment, I am writing a blog entry.

The cycle of the work-week and household chores takes a lot of time and a lot of energy. And when I’m not busy with those things, it’s easy just to crash. But I know that I need to make time for creative work, or I won’t feel complete. So I’m trying to seize the moments I can, to not worry about being perfect (because I don’t have time for perfectionism), and to “add to the beauty” in small ways when I get the chance.

How do you find time for creativity in your busy schedule?


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